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Connectors Do the Difficult Work of Keeping It Simple
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Connectors Do the Difficult Work of Keeping It Simple
A few years ago, I was being interviewed on a television talk show. The host held up a couple of my books and said, “John, I’ve read several of your books and they are all so simple.” His tone of voice, body language, and mannerisms made it clear to me and the audience that he did not mean it as a compliment!
My response was straightforward: “That’s true. The principles in my books are simple to understand. But they are not always simple to apply.” The audience applauded, and he conceded what I said was right.
I think a lot of people believe that if an individual, especially an author or speaker, bombards them with a lot of complex information or writes using big words in a style that is dense and difficult to understand, then he is somehow intelligent and credible. In the academic world, that seems to be especially true. When students can’t understand their professor, they often assume it’s because the professor is so smart and knows so much more than they do. I don’t think that’s always true. More often in such cases the teacher isn’t a good communicator. While educators often take something simple and make it complicated, communicators take something complicated and make it simple.
In his excellent book The Power of Little Words, author John Beckley, former business editor of Newsweek, observes: “The emphasis in education is rarely placed on communicating ideas simply and clearly. Instead, we’re encouraged to use more complicated words and sentence structures to show off our learning and literacy. . . . Instead of teaching us how to communicate as clearly as possible, our schooling in English teaches us how to fog things up. It even implants a fear that if we don’t make our writing complicated enough, we’ll be considered uneducated.”
I think everyone can agree that many of the issues we face in life can be complex. A professor may legitimately argue that his or her area of expertise is complicated. I won’t contest that. But as leaders and communicators, our job is to bring clarity to a subject, not complexity. It doesn’t take nearly as much skill to identify a problem as it does to find a good solution. The measure of a great teacher isn’t what he knows; it’s what his students know. Making things simple is a skill, and it’s a necessary one if you want to connect with people when you communicate.
Winston Churchill was perhaps the greatest communicator of the twentieth century. He was an excellent leader, inspiring communicator, and accomplished writer, having won the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1953. He continually expressed the importance of keeping communication simple. He stated, “All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope,” and “Broadly speaking, the short words are the best, and the old words best of all.”
It may seem counterintuitive, but if you want to take your communication to the next level and connect with people, don’t try to impress them with your intellect or overpower them with too much information. Give them clarity and simplicity. People will relate to you, and they’ll want to invite you back to communicate with them again.
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Thank you to Everyone who Connected!
Posted by: admin | Comments (58)So here it is: the book we’ve all been working on:
Available March, 2010
When I turned in this manuscript last spring, I was already very pleased with it. After all, I was confident that …
Nine months later, I’m excited about this book in ways I couldn’t have predicted. That’s because back when I started writing this book, I had no idea that I’d end up sharing the entire unpublished manuscript with my blog readers.
(For that matter, I had no idea I would even HAVE a blog.)
I didn’t know that I would connect online with such a large number of people on the subject of connecting.
I never knew I could receive so much amazing input and advice from people all over the world that I’d never met.
And I couldn’t have predicted how much your suggestions would change and improve the book.
But here we are. After eleven weeks of sharing the book here a chapter at a time, we’re busy making the final changes to the content based on your input. How much of an impact did you make? Well, here are some exciting facts and stats.
From September 1 to November 16…
This blog recorded more than 100,000 page views.
The posts on the chapters received 1,437 different comments.
To the ten chapters, we added more than 75 of your stories, quotes and anecdotes.
We made over 100 additional changes based on your editorial suggestions.
We redesigned the cover to include the photos of contributors (i.e. YOU).
Then after receiving over 200 photographs – too many to fit on the cover – we redesigned the end papers to include every useable photo.
The one thing that didn’t change, thanks to amazing work by the publishing team, was the date the book will be available for purchase in the United States:
March 30, 2010.
Whether you buy the book or not, I am truly grateful for your part in its creation. I hope that the process has added value to you and your communication.
THANK YOU for connecting with me. It’s an honor to communicate with you.